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And there has been a 0.5 per cent increase in divorce for 40- to 44-year-olds between 20, when 22,506 people called time on their marriages.
In a further – and not entirely unexpected – development, successful women with younger husbands are particularly vulnerable, according to Manchester-based solicitors JMW, who report a rise in younger husbands leaving their middle-aged wives.
The danger, she says, of getting involved is that you will begin to see your own marriage as divorce material.
“It’s like getting broody when all your friends are having children,” she says.
Not any more: the mid-life marriage meltdown is on the rise, from Hollywood to Huddersfield.
Do you have an old postcard and curious about its age?
Not according to Relate; your friends will be feeling blamed and attacked enough as it is.
“When you’re in the midst of conflict it is difficult to be positive about anything,” says Denise Knowles, a relationship counsellor for the organisation.
“When I divorced, I figured the real friends would stay with me come what may – and that turned out to be true,” says Ayesha Vardag, president of family law firm Vardags and the woman known as the ''Diva of Divorce’’. Thankfully, a new etiquette is emerging (see box, below) to help us cope with this latest trend.
It is rooted in not being judgmental, however tempting they may be. Are we really required to be so understanding that we can’t get even a little cross with one side or the other, or both?